Every man is born as many men and dies as a single one

 “Anyone can achieve their fullest potential, who we are might be predetermined, but the path we follow is always of our own choosing. We should never allow our fears or the expectations of others to set the frontiers of our destiny. Your destiny can’t be changed but, it can be challenged. Every man is born as many men and dies as a single one.”     Martin Heidegger

Every morning is a new day with hope and the need to be filled. We fill it how we see fit, memories of the past, old hatreds, and very seldom hope.  Why is that because some one has taken, NO check that . .

we have given hope up and replaced it with some thing else. In  my case its self loathing and bitterness.  Peoples actions say volumes and they do not see it.  you can’t say you love some one and then do 3 harsh things to them in 30 mins. .   actions/words.  I try to help and to give but some times that giving is never repaid its taken with a thank you and a nod. .  and your left with a whole. .  if you take replace its a simple  concept if you take my kindness replace it with kindness. .  If you don’t you have little to stand on when I snap and you say can’t you give me any thing. . . NO I can’t. .  sorry . . . I tried my stores are empty there is this thing called and emotional bank account. In a friendship, relationship or even the work place.  it works like this a smile 5 buck a hello how are things 20 bucks etc..  when you need it it’s there and when your snarly this account pays out.  Well at some point the in and out need to match or you go in to the red… You can’t constantly with draw and not pay back. .   I have had my share on both sides of this.  me and my Best friend are so over drawn on each other that no mater what we do it just causes more over draft. . .  In the long run we hope,.. WELL I hope that the friend ship that is saved, one in which I hold more valuable than gold will prove worth the over draft and pain. So we start each day as many people and at the end of days we are but one man/woman. how do you want to be remembered as a good person as a person that did not care or one whose actuations did not match their words, many ways to end but in the end you will be only remembered as one way to one person HOW do you want to be remembered????????

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