“If a man were to know the end of this day’s business ‘ere it come. But it suffices that the day will end and then the end be known. And if we meet again, well then we’ll smile. And if not, then this parting was well made.” Uncommon Valor – Col. Cal Rhodes
“Be careful what you wish for you just may get it” -(unknown) We have all heard this before but we never head it. The grass is greener… sayings that give warning but never heeded. When its over you wish for something that may or may not be good for you because your hurting. Some times what you need you HAD and my never have again.. Moving forward does not mean you forget the past you need to learn from it
THIS JUST IN: life is not convenient. It wont happen when it works for you, its a mean bitch and will beat you to your knees. When you’re on your knees life puts more weight on your shoulders. The out look of “gods will” “fate” ” murphy’s law” “shit happens” how ever you look at it.
“The Man who says he can, and the man who says he can not.. Are both correct” ― Confucius . People offer to help, let them but remember its help they cant make you do any thing. A partner can not make the other partner happy they can assist or help but its the parties of the First parts that needs to want to be happy. . . if you say you cant lose weight You right stay on the couch. . . I can walk 2 miles! where are your shoes? You have some distance to cover. When you and some one break up there are good feelings and bad feelings, there are happy memories and the WTF memories. We all have it in us to make changes. They don’t have to be great changes but they do have to be changes. A water to a homeless person will make there day 50 cents to a school donation bucket may help the child that cant go because his family would have to chose between Food and the child’s trip. If you say you cant with out trying you cant. NO you cant lift 1 ton all at once, but 50 lbs 44 times ( 4 sets off 11) guess what you moved a ton.
― Confucius this is a statement that should be remembered not read and forgotten.
Let me start today that i never thought lifting 7 lbs would make me out of breath. . . Now your all saying WTF 7 pounds well let me break it down. . . I lost 57 lbs I had on my shoulders a 40 lbs dog food and a 25 lbs of birds seed. . 40 + 25= 65 – 57= 7. When your Fluffy, big boned large FAT what ever you want to call it you never see the Weight. . when you are in a relation ship you get complacent and let your self go. . STOP that your partner wants to show you off and when you weight 340 pound you look like CRAP. They want sexy not FFS really the Pillsbury dough boy. . . this is not the normal post that will I hope inspire a talk between you and your wife husband girl/boy friend its a chat you need to have with your self as Christopher Titus said IF YOUR NOT WITH IN 10% of your starting dating weight YOUR the issue not them. . . . So here is a recap talk to partner, talk to your self about your actions and your life style. . . and always tell them there sexy and hug them. .
Model “Lady Atropin” and husband “Langmann Ingoson” Photographer: “Bully-Pictures”
“Forgiveness is a choice. Don’t wait for it to just wash over you all of a sudden. You have to choose it” – Dr.Phil
We hate our selves. . Yes I just said what no one wants to admit. Most people cant stand the face in the mirror, or they displace there feelings onto others to lighten there dislike for them selves. To love ones self is not a crime, in many cases we don’t. What we need to do is forgive ourselves for the sins of the past. LET IT THE FUCK GO… Its not a coat to keep you warm, in fact it makes you colder. Its not armor to keep you safe, it makes you more vulnerable. It does not make you strong, it makes you weaker. What it is, is a way for us to give pennants to our selves. Its ok to love your self, to forgive your self. What is not ok is to build a wall so high, so think you cant find even your self. IF YOU WANT TO BE FREE…..forgive your self, there is no joy, no happy, no completion, if you cant forgive your self.. I know this first hand. . . because I have never forgiven many of my friends and family for things… What I discovered is that I have become a lesser person for holding on to it. . . I lost something very dear to me, because I could not forgive. As I sat and talk to them, I found out that they can not forgive either. How sad we both are for giving the power for happiness away. I will try. “No. Try not. Do… or do not. There is no try.” – Yoda < for the geeks……. IF I want to be happy and maybe once again travel with someone I truly love I must learn to forgive my self first then others because it does not work the other way around…….